arghhh!!!! arghh!!

I guess observing the trend of the topics and the times that I've written I feel that I expend energy when my heads filled with crap!!
Yes!! it is again.. with this I believe there is a need for a little change in the quote from shit happens to shit happens with me always!
Well well well my folks are alarmed by the fact that im 22,hence they started this hue and cry about my marriage.I am sure people who know me must be rolling on the floor and laughing.. well some joy to the world.
The drama unfolds with them trying to search for 'not-so'-young,bald,Yinglish-speaking,'fun-loving,settled phoren -bachelors for me.
After having searched for a couple starts the whole episode of sending pictures..ooooh..*in the background* leading to pit-full of troubles for me.I was asked to deck up(in my perception), according to them look flattering with bling clothes on,hair clipped and appealing not only for the guy but his f'o'ther and m'a'ther as well.after having done all of that starts my troubles with the pictures taking process.I felt nothing less than a clown in a circus.Seriously I'm no 'K' serial bahu to be carrying off that look day in and day out.Why is that its so difficult to keep things as is?.

After my initial resistance to the proposal of taking pictures in a saree(considering the fact that its the sexiest garment)at the 'not-so' famous photo studio,my brains worked like Einstein's and I put forth a deal before my dad saying that if I have to take pictures it shall be at home else He could drop the very idea.I dragged in Yashu to save the day for me.In my head I couldnt thank her enough for saving me from one of the biggest embarrassments of my life.She was just short of a wreath and a pair of wings.Although the whole process of posing was a pain I liked the dressing up part in the end :P ..teeeheeee n Im off to my concert.. :DDD
tataaaa

Satta -The movie :p

Politics has always been a conundrum to you,me and everyone.There were times that I was annoyed, disgusted with the people ruling us;but the scrolling that I saw recently on t.v saying 'actress Nagma likely to contest in elections' made me go roflz.The reason behind her joining congress is apparently her' admiration for Rajiv'-who's long dead stumped me and am still recovering from it.. wonder in the name of who's death she joined films .Its real amusing to even imagine these actresses.. going to be our rep in the house of parliament.Well....she's just one of those aging actresses who are foraying into politics for the "development of people" , "pained by the communal riots"(joining conservative parties..) or have suddenly woken up to the atrocities of 'Aam' junta and decided to serve poor till their death"
I would say reasons should be more believable ladies.
Already stuck in galore of problems due to corrupt , criminal minded politicians , now with the added 'glamour' ..things are sure going to get worse.Is this awakening or shining India?..well its crystal clear that its the awakening of opportunists who wants to make the most of things while 'We' the people are all in deep slumber.


JAGO JUNTA JAGO... EK PYAALI TATA CHAAI PEELO :D

what it feels like being a women..

Silky smooth lips are sweet as candy. .tight blue jeans.. skin that shows in patches.. strong inside..but you never know little girls never show.. sings Madonna.. these words are bloody true.

Women have been always been set guidelines about to do’s n donts..still she broke out of the shell ,she was put forcibly into and started emerging as strong confident individuals in control of their lives and capable of raising their voices against injustice towards them.Not many fall into this category as women are set boundaries by ‘traditions’, male chauvinists. and the list goes on..being an optimist that I am, I look at the brighter side of women who managed to free themselves from the shackles of these factors and are the present age “super women “ who are known to be the best multitaskers managing work at work place and the household chores too with ease..The ones who have managed to make something of themselves are out into the world while the others who couldn't sit at home doing their chores and watch T.V :P...

To rake some moolah the production houses shifted their focus on to women-centric programs..In that attempt they stooped to despicable levels while sketching the female figures... the same ‘super women’ of the house was portrayed as a character heavily clad with super heavy sarees, and tonnes of jewelry and heavy makeup which you would have seen in your 1^st degree horror movies.. 24/7!!!!. plotting against her family, husband or the husband's nth wife. and adding to it these ‘soaps’ are just shown 365 days with the same plot with a change and two having soaring TRP’s to their credit.gone are the days that female characters were shown portraying conviction and strength.. but yeah these qualities are shown here too but in a different angle. .i fail to understand how people are able to digest nonsensical shows like that. . Why isnt a women shown sensible and powerful??, rather than plotting with her godly brains even in the kitchens and weeping episodes together.. taking the fact that the Indians are sentimental and cashing in on it showcasing crap is thoroughly sickening.

as they say ,every coin has two sides so does this issue too ,where the same woman who was excessively dressed is shown in the skimpiest outfits possible even to sell a shaving gel for men!!!. While people involved with it argue otherwise saying that the economic interests behind the objectification and eroticisation of females by the media are efforts to counter negative stereotyping.True!!! indeed.These are just couple of situations to site where the very essence of women hood is denigrated in the process of business and money making in the television field.

The idea of women as independent and equal citizens is endorsed in our public sphere through the media, with the promotion of programs like these there is a contradiction and women are paying the price for this confusion. The media which actually should guide us towards making this world a better place to live in, should not go against the ethics. Value driven programs are to be encouraged, this kind of outcome would be difficult to achieve because media policy-makers rarely concern themselves with this. I believe that the women’s progress will not only start with economic progress, or with education it also includes the attitude towards women that dots media coverage.

let us be the media and resonate throughout the people of this great nation that has its history full of great women,that the time has finally come to respect their descendants

No No for Nerdfifcation..

wheuuwww!!! ...its been a long time that I ventured out into other parts of city thanks to my exams which barred me from stepping out my house. Woaoh,...looks like its changed a lot ...a lot of new buildings,...polished roads,.covered potholes (?!??!),..paved footpaths,..more greener,....more cleaner,...and the rest,..summers hot,..making indoor activities mandatory... and leaving me with no option but to while away my precious holidays on tv or reading. With the EAMCET results declared all the channels were splashed with the advertisements filled with results of the corporate colleges and how they broke all time records?!!!.and topping it,the ads are having tollywood tunes..phew..giving tough time for people like me..who are sensitive to such kind of random music.

Joblessness or consciousness I started thinking how these corporate colleges mushroomed in the city of Hyd..and spread to rest towns and villages!!..attracting and luring the parents as well as the students with a promise of better future..

Having been in a corporate college myself I've understood their methodology quite well...even was I in the 'top' sections where the students were segregated first based on their 10th marks and later on their 1styr performance..all I understand is that they nerdify students,nerdify nerds more ,as they are the supposed match winners. I do agree that earlier the scenario was completely different..there was not much competition..but that doesn't justify this whole process.. where students slog..slog hours,days,years together..for the competitive exams minus family life,personal life, or any other extra curiculars..I've been told always this particular line during my 10th, two years of my +2, n now again in Btech.."that this is the turning point in your life..study 24/7"... seriously does this stop anywhere?. The latest tradition of pressurizing kids only with studies with no extra curricular activities to ease the pressure over them is too much on the young minds.The bottom line is slogging exists at all points of your life take it when you are a student,an under grad,at job and everywhere to put in short...but be not in the notion that it exists in your +2 and then there's the end to it.

One of my friend is an awesome musician,really with a great voice,and also plays many instruments,people who are close to him swear by his talent that he's meant to be big someday,I'd opine otherwise,'coz the poor lad must atleast be allowed to try to reach his goals..again,..his folks,"orthodo-sapiens" that they are never let him take his attention off books on debating ,they say a respectable job can be achieved only through good education.I agree to sum parts of the sentence that a respectable position can be achieved through good education,....BUT NOT "ONLY" through it.Has anyone ever worried what Lata mangeshkar's qualification is?,..or Sachin's,...or any of your favorite IDOL from a field which does not involve nerdifying your extra curricular skills..dont they garner respect.Leave music and sports for their respected prodigies.

Why dont we open up?.why are the number of prodigies,...(read CHILD PRODIGIES) from abroad so high,....?!?! coz there its a free society,...where young talents are nurtured and sharpened rather than pressurized with the weight of books,....when will we ever learn,....when will we ever learn,...the day we let go of our egos,which stop us from taking good points from improved societies making us believe that we are "aping them" ,....will we learn,....that it is better to ape someone better,...than ape yourself,...(again there is a thin line between completely aping people ,and taking the good things from them,..coz unfortunately,,..most of the things from other cultures are good) thats all is evolution all about after all isnt it??,.things should change the mindset of the parents must change. I suggest that .they should also encourage their child's interest in extra curricular activities too and nurture them apart from the regular dose of studies. Cuz little known fact is that these things are also big stress busters and you'd never know if your child is gifted with the talent fo it and might make big in it.. and I would like to rest my argument saying that 'one act of random sensibility can start off a chain reaction..we can have legends..in the fields in which they are gifted naturally in..and not forced into by some nagging ancients...and one day these legends will say their hearts out that it was because of the encouragement by folks back home and the broadmindedness of the society that they came to be what they are ..and they gave the world some of its greatest treasures..'

Blasts are Past!

I was surfing through the channels that day too but then the scrolling on one of the tv channels caught my attention..which read 6 blasts in pink city rock the nation once again.

Not even did we people recuperate from the shock of the Mumbai train blasts and Hyderabad blasts, that the extremists attacked again on the peace and harmony of the country.It was very upsetting to note that the blasts took place in heavily populated areas of Metropolitans at a very peak hour killing many innocent people who have come out with their loved ones for a whiff of fresh air!..

Images were heartrending, lives were distorted, families shattered…several questions unanswered.. all these are the upshot of the bunch of devils brains at work..The next day the papers were flooded with the news of the blasts…so were the televisions filled with further reports on the tragedy.There was a continuous input fed to the viewers who were inquisitive to learn about the after effects of the blasts. I was astonished to find from the images that the pace of the lives of people didn’t hold up because of the attacks....the people have returned back to the streets erasing the memories of terror.Along with the people so did the Minister of Home.

Good signs as it shows, but is this the spirit of a brave city or just an acceptance of a new reality??.Looking on the entirety of the blasts I was troubled with the question as to' why an attack on the common people?? why disrupt their lives??' the answers for this lies only with extremists and the ideologies they are following.

Irrespective of the religious backgrounds we are all facing and fighting the common enemy.The resilience of our people is appreciated every time , that we have fought back and proved that nothing can quiver the pillars of harmony in the country ,but that doesn't necessarily showcase that we people would bounce back every time after an attack and would suffer silently.The least that the people's people can do is to strengthen the counter measures taken in the Metropolitans and other places where there is a high risk for an attack , as it’s the duty of the elected members to value the lives of their citizens and curtail any further attacks, so that a common man wouldn’t step out of his house with a fear for his life.

Heart attack!!!

When love happens a person turns selfless for the person he/she is in love with (ps:personal opinion),but the recent events paint a different picture..it sounds more like Love or Die..radical eh! sure it is.

A girl was slaughtered in broad daylight by her supposed 'lover' who couldnt bear the reality that she's ignoring him!Every sane person would back her decision of staying off 'cuz its her life and things are supposed to be left to her discretion..little did she know that,for this decision of hers she would one day pay a heavy price-her life.

Read on for a rude shock -This was an argument between me and a guy ..-where I quoted consider every man a bastard unless he is proven not to be one..( well most are).
An upsetting opinion of one which was absolutely baseless was put fwd.."girls get to face shitty things 'cuz they behave like that or dress in a provoking way".
With those words resonating in my head I wished if I could shoot him in a point blank range..brushing away the thoughts of 101 ways to murder him,I simply wanted to ask him that rapes,sexual abuse,eveteasing and all atrocities against women happen cuz the way they behave!!!..
: X screw u really...u kinked brained soul!!!I would sincerely request Mr.MCP to wake up from his deep slumber and check with reality..before blurting out ridiculous opinions..and moreover arguing on them..



down u chauvinists n down u male world!!!

restn my argumnt..PEACE PREVAIL!~